Instead, your man is going to be standing up for it, and he will be holding you off the ground. Your man can then lean over you, and you can put your arms around the back of his neck and wrap your legs around his waist. Your man can put his arms around your waist or butt before standing up straight while holding you. Quick Warning:
Even More WOT Positions The answer seems to lie somewhere in the fact that men like to keep control during sex; they like to be in charge, to be dominant, to feel that they are leading their partner in the act of lovemaking. In short, it seems to be hard for men to give up control during sex. And that's a real shame, because one of the big problems that stops a couple getting maximum sexual satisfaction is the belief system that says the man has to lead during sex and the woman has to follow.